Picky Eaters

References:

  1. Caring for Kids – When your child is a picky eater
  2. UnlockFood.ca – Say Goodbye to Picky Eating!
  3. Region of Peel – Picky eaters


What is a Picky Eater?

  • A child who only wants to eat their favourite foods all the time
  • A child who gets upset when a new food is provided
  • A child who cries and is fussy at the table
  • A child who worries when they have to eat away from the home


  • Your child will have days where they feel like eating certain foods and days where they don’t
  • It is common for young children to reject certain foods
  • Children can be slow to accept new textures and tastes
  • If you continue to offer foods to your child they may accept and enjoy new foods over time
  • Forcing your child to eat can cause them to resist eating


How Much Food Should My Child Eat?

  • If your child is growing well, you likely do not need to worry about how much they are eating
  • Most children have an appetite that is appropriate for their age and growth rate
  • As a parent or caregiver it is your responsibility to provide your child with healthy snacks and meals
  • It is up to your child to decide what and how much they want to eat
  • Learning how to listen to their body and eating when they are hungry and stopping when they are full helps them develop healthy eating habits


Tips for Picky Eaters:

  • Children like deciding what to have for dinner, try to include them in the decision making process
  • Allow your child to participate in meal preparation (pouring and stirring, etc.)
  • Give your child 10-15 minutes notice before dinner to help them settle into having a meal
  • Eat together at a table
  • Avoid distractions like toys, books, and TV
  • Offer a variety of healthy foods for snacks and meals
  • Offer at least one food per meal that you know your child likes
  • Give small portions of each food, and offer more if they finish
  • Give them the opportunity to make choices when appropriate
  • Encourage your child to try a bite of different foods at each meal
  • Be a role model, your child will be more willing to try new foods and eat better if they see people they look up to eating the same foods
  • Prepare one meal for the family your child will be more willing to try the meal if they understand they will not get their favourite food if they refuse a meal
  • If your child refuses a meal, allow them to make that choice
  • Avoid using food as a reward
  • Threatening, bribing, and punishing your child can cause them to resist eating even more
  • Try new foods at breakfast, when your child is usually the hungriest


Further Your Learning:

  1. Caring for Kids – When your child is a picky eater
  2. UnlockFood.ca – Say Goodbye to Picky Eating!


Shareable Resources For Clients:

  1. Caring for Kids – When your child is a picky eater
  2. Region of Peel – Picky eaters