Intimate Partner Violence

References:

  1. HealthLinkBC – Teen Relationship Abuse
  2. MyHealth.Albert.ca – Teen Relationship Abuse


  • 2 in 10 teen girls report being physically or sexually abused by a partner
  • 1 in 10 teen boys report abuse in dating relationships


Teen Dating Abuse Can Be:

  • Any kind of physical violence or threat of physical violence
  • Emotional or mental abuse
    • Mind games, constant texting, constant criticism
  • Sexual abuse
    • Making you do something you don’t want to, refusing safe sex practices, making you feel  bad about yourself sexually


Teen Relationship Abuse Can Lead To:

  • Eating disorders
  • Depression
  • Low self-esteem
  • Risky sexual behaviour
  • Poor school performance
  • Drug, alcohol, tobacco use


Questions That Can Help A Teen Identify An Abusive Relationship:

  • Does your partner:
    • Make all the decisions?
    • Put you down?
    • Control who you see or talk to?
    • Threaten to hurt themselves?
    • Blame you for the way they treat you?
    • Stalk you?
  • Do you:
    • Feel less confident when with your partner?
    • Feel scared or worried to do the wrong thing?
    • Change your behaviour due to fear or to avoid a fight?

*Answering yes to any of these questions can indicate an abusive relationship*


How Can I Help My Teen?

  • Talk to your teen about the qualities of healthy relationships
  • Explain that loving partners do not cause fear, injury, or lower self-esteem
  • Make sure your teen knows they deserve respect in all their relationships


Further Your Learning:

  1. HealthLinkBC – Teen Relationship Abuse
  2. MyHealth.Alberta.ca – Teen Relationship Abuse


Shareable Resources For Clients:

  1. HealthLinkBC – Teen Relationship Abuse
  2. MyHealth.Alberta.ca – Teen Relationship Abuse