Disordered Eating

References:

  1. Here to Help BC – Disordered Eating
  2. Kids Help Phone – My safety plan to cope with disordered eating


What is Disordered Eating?

  • A set of behaviours, thoughts, and emotions about food and body image
  • It does not fit with the definition of eating disorders


What are the Forms of Disordered Eating?

  • Fasting: not eating for long periods of time
  • Restrictive dieting: severe limitations on how much you eat
  • Purging: abusing laxatives or vomiting
  • Over-exercising
  • Abusing steroids
  • Repeated cycles of extreme dieting then followed by weight gain
  • Thinking you must have a certain body type to be valuable
  • Labelling foods as good or bad
  • Anxiety surrounding meal times
  • Eating alone or secretly


What Can Lead to Disordered Eating?

  • Unrealistic body standards in the media
  • Individuals with depression, anxiety, and those who are recovering from trauma


How Can I Hel My Child with Disordered Eating?

  • Be compassionate and encourage your child to be who they are
  • Be a role model by consuming a variety of foods that you enjoy, and exercising for fun not simply to burn calories and lose weight
  • Develop an environment where your child knows they can express their feelings and opinions
  • Show your child you value them regardless of how they look, what their hobbies are, what grades they get, etc.
  • Help your children develop critical thinking skills so they can challenge the social norm
  • Avoid making comments about the way others look
  • If your child shows signs of disordered eating, get help before it progresses to an eating disorder


How Can I Help My Child Cope with Disordered Eating?

  • Help them to recognize disordered eating and how it affects their life
  • Help them to develop coping strategies to manage the disordered eating
  • Help them to understand what events or stressors contribute to the disordered eating
  • Aid them in identifying the warning signs they may be experiencing disordered eating
  • Encourage them to make a list of their personal and professional supports for when they need additional support


Coping Skills for Disordered Eating:

  • Try to put a name to your emotions
  • Attempt to be more accepting of yourself and reflect on the abilities your body has rather than how it looks
  • Learn to practice mindfulness
  • Distract yourself by doing the things you enjoy such as drawing, dancing, watching TV, reading, playing a game, etc.
  • Spend time with the people you care about
  • Try to use positive affirmations
  • Take a social media break
  • Practice breathing exercises
  • Write a journal about your thoughts


Further Your Knowledge:

  1. Here to Help BC – Disordered Eating
  2. Kids Help Phone – My safety plan to cope with disordered eating


Shareable Resources For Clients:

  1. Here to Help BC – Disordered Eating